Moving can feel like an extreme sport, and when kids are in the mix it sometimes feels like you are playing with the difficulty level turned up. Kids thrive on routine and familiarity, which means packing their lives into boxes and dropping them in a new neighbourhood can be tough. The good news is there are ways to make the transition easier, smoother, and even a little fun for the whole family. With the right approach, you can help kids see moving as an adventure instead of an ordeal.
Children of different ages process moves in different ways. Toddlers may cling more to their favourite blanket or stuffed animal, while school-age kids worry about leaving friends behind. Teenagers might resist leaving their school, sports teams, or favourite hangouts. Acknowledging these differences is the first step to helping each child feel supported. Parents often underestimate how big of a life event a move is for kids, but with preparation, it can become a growth opportunity.
Talk About the Move Early
Kids do better when they know what is coming. Springing a move on them last minute usually sparks confusion and resistance. Instead, talk about it as soon as the decision is made. Keep the conversation age-appropriate. Younger children may need simple explanations, while older kids might want to know more details about the new house or community.
Reassure them that their favourite toys, books, and belongings are coming with them. This simple reminder can reduce a lot of anxiety. Encourage questions and let them share their worries. Sometimes just being heard makes the change easier to accept.
You can also use storybooks about moving to help younger kids understand the process. Play is another great tool. Try doing a “practice move” with toys by packing them in a box and then unpacking them in a different room. This makes the idea less scary and gives children a sense of what to expect.
Keep Kids Involved
When kids feel included, they feel more in control. Give them small jobs such as decorating their moving boxes with markers, putting stickers on labels, or helping pack their own toys. These tasks might seem minor, but they give children ownership in the process.
Families booking with our Mission moving company often let kids pack a special box that is opened first in the new house. It usually includes a few favourite toys, a blanket, or books to help them settle in quickly. The excitement of opening that box can make the new space feel a lot more like home.
Older kids and teens can be involved in bigger decisions. Let them help choose paint colours, make a “wish list” for their new room, or research fun activities in the new community. You could even plan a small farewell party with their friends before moving day. These steps turn moving into something participatory rather than something that just happens to them.
Maintain Routines as Much as Possible
Moving day is chaotic, but keeping routines intact gives kids a sense of stability. Stick with familiar meal times and bedtimes. If you normally read a story before bed, keep doing it even if you are surrounded by half-packed boxes. For younger kids, naps and snack times are key to avoiding meltdowns.
Even on the busiest days, try to build in small moments of normalcy. These touchpoints remind kids that while the scenery may be changing, the family rhythm is not. Having favourite foods available, continuing bedtime rituals, or playing a favourite board game can all provide comfort. You may need to adjust slightly to fit around moving tasks, but the goal is consistency that reassures children everything is still okay.
Explore the New Neighbourhood Together
Moving should not just be about unpacking boxes. Take time to walk around your new neighbourhood, visit local parks, and check out the nearest library or community centre. Exploring together helps kids build excitement and familiarity with their new surroundings.
The BC Recreation and Parks Association is a helpful resource for finding family-friendly activities and community programs across the province. In the Fraser Valley, this might mean a stop at Mill Lake Park in Abbotsford, playgrounds in Chilliwack, or the Mission Leisure Centre. Signing kids up for programs early can also help them make friends before school starts. Turning exploration into an adventure shows kids what they are gaining, not just what they are leaving behind.
Set Up Their Room First
When you arrive at your new home, prioritize setting up your kids’ rooms. Having their bed made, posters on the wall, and toys ready creates a safe retreat while the rest of the house is still in chaos. It sends a clear message: their comfort matters.
Trust us, it is better than having your child fall asleep in a pile of bubble wrap. A familiar room helps children adapt quickly and gives you one less source of stress to juggle. Add in some personalization right away, like fairy lights, artwork, or their favourite bedding, and they will start to feel ownership of the new space. Unpacking together also makes kids feel like they are shaping their environment rather than just adapting to it.
Conclusion: Family First, Boxes Second
Moving with kids is not always easy, but it does not have to be overwhelming. Talk early, keep them involved, stick to routines, and make their comfort a priority. Explore the new community together and give them a safe, familiar space right away.
At Homestead Moving Services, we have moved enough families to know kids come first. From Abbotsford moving company services to long-haul relocations, our team makes moving smoother so you can focus on your family. With the right approach, moving becomes less about stress and more about building new memories together. Contact us now for your upcoming move and let us help your family start fresh with ease.
For more family resources, the Government of Canada’s child and infant health page offers additional guidance on keeping kids healthy and supported during big transitions.